Zoom Step Screen S.L.A.A. Step Retreat Weekend

When: ​Friday, December 11 to Sunday, December 13, 2020

Before registering, please:


  • Identify as a Sex and Love Addict or think you have a problem with Sex and Love addiction.
  • Have access to ZOOM on a phone or computer device with video capabilities.
  • Please download & update the recent version ZOOM prior to check-in at


  • Dial in without video options will be available only for those with legal consequences and must contact the retreat coordinator prior to registering.

  • Due to this being a virtual retreat you must be signed in no later than 7:15pm ET on Friday, no later than 9:00am ET on Saturday and Sunday of the retreat in order to participate.

  • You will be required to stay signed in to the Zoom meeting each day from the time you log in until we end for the day. There are many scheduled breaks. Schedule below.(please keep this in mind if you are using a cell phone for attendance)

  • We have included breaks indicated on the schedule. During these times we will open the zoom chat and you can unmute to get to know others. These breaks are opportunities to get to know others as well as time for self care or meals. In order for us to know you are available for reading of the steps, please turn on and enable your video.

  • You are welcome to turn off your video feature or keep your audio off if you need a self care break.

  • Willing to be open, flexible and supportive of the retreat coordinators and attendees throughout the weekend.

  • The S.L.A.A. Basic Text is used for the entirety of the retreat weekend which will not be shown as a share screen. Please have your basic text with you in order to participate. (You can order a copy of the basic text by contacting our literature coordinator) or through Fellowship Wide Services Online Store or have shipped with your registration packet.

  • Prior to registering, read the attached document to assist you with answering questions about the virtual retreat. Please reach out to the retreat coordinator if you still need further information.

  • After registering and paying for the retreat, an email will be sent with “Step 2.” You will be required to register your email address with zoom in order to receive the direct link to attend the retreat 


12 Step Virtual Retreat Schedule – December 11 to 13, 2020


ZOOM MEETING ID is sent after you register from the”Step 2” email you receive after payment/GDVI registration

Friday 12/11

6:00 pm – 7:15 pm  Open Check in: Check in to the Meeting Day

6:00 pm – 6:30 pm  Answer Zoom Questions and Fellowship Fellowship Waiting Room

6:45 pm – 7:15 pm  Sponsorship Q & A – Fellowship Waiting Room

7:30 pm – 10:30 pm  We begin at 7:30 pm SHARP. Must be on time! -Main Meeting Room

Welcome Evening Session:
Ice breakers, Review meeting schedule, Draw names for leaders/speakers/Zoom Service, Review safety ground rules, Q & A, Getting Current Meeting
-Breaks will be suggested as we go during this time frame

Saturday, 12/12

8:30 am – 9:00 am  Open Check in: Check in to the Meeting Day

8:30 am – 9:15 am  Fellowship Chat, Questions Fellowship Waiting Room

9:15 am – 10:45 am  Step 1, 2, 3: Speakers & Buzz groups

Main Meeting Room & Multiple Break Out Rooms

11:15 am – 12:30 pm  Step 4, 5: Mini-assignment, Speaker, & Buzz groups Main Meeting Room & Multiple Break Out Rooms

12:30 pm – 1:30 pm   Lunch Break at Home, Fellowship Chat Fellowship Open Chat

1:30 pm – 3:00 pm   Step 6, 7: Speakers & Buzz groups

Main Meeting Room & Multiple Break Out Rooms

3:00 pm – 4:15 pm  Self Care Break, Fellowship Chat Fellowship Open Chat

4:15 pm – 4:45 pm  Announcements, Affirmations, GDVI/FWS – Main Meeting Room

4:45 pm – 5:00 pm  5 minute meditation / 5 minute writing – Main Meeting Room

5:15 pm – 6:15 pm  Getting Current Meeting – Main Meeting Room 

6:15 pm – 6:45 pm  Giveaways Fellowship Open Chat

Sunday, 12/13

8:30 am – 9:00 am  Open Check in: Check in to the Meeting Day

8:30 am – 9:15 am  Fellowship Chat, Questions Fellowship Waiting Room

9:15 am – 10:45 am  Step 8, 9: Speakers & Group shares – Main Meeting Room

11:00 am – 12:30 pm  Step 10, 11, 12: Speakers & Group shares – Main Meeting Room

12:45 pm  Closing Announcements & 11th Step Prayer – Main Meeting Room

12:45 pm – 1:00 pm 

Fellowship Chat / Exchange information – Main Meeting Room

*A final schedule and details will be mailed in your registration packet & emailed* 

Format of the Retreat:

  • During the retreat weekend we will read and share on the 12 Steps-together. If you have worked on the Steps in this type of format before, you already know its value. If you have not done any study of the Steps, intensive or otherwise, this is a great way to do it, especially the first time. It gives you hope and faith that the program steps work. Regardless of where any one individual is in the Step study process, we are able to learn from sharing our experience, strength and hope with each other.

  • There will be leaders and speakers selected at random on the Friday introduction of the weekend. We trust our Higher Power in this process and know whoever is chosen to speak or lead is strengthening their own recovery and offering value to ours.

Cost to Register: $50 (before 10/30/20) / $75 (after 10/31/20) helps to support the Greater Delaware Valley Intergroup to continue our work on carrying the message to the Sex and Love addict who still suffers. No more registrations will take place after 12/4/2020, 11:59pm ET. You will also receive a packet of information mailed to the address you provide.

Included with registration is:

  • Invitation to the Zoom weekend

  • A retreat packet that will be mailed 10 to 14 days prior to the weekend (US ONLY/ Outside US will be emailed)

  • A Guide to the Steps Workbook which is used only for the Step 4 writing assignment of the retreat

  • An opportunity to grow in your recovery journey

  • Opportunities to meet new fellows

  • S.L.A.A. giveaways Saturday night